Supporting Animal Friends Through Grief

Just like humans, animals can feel the loss of a beloved companion. You may notice changes in behaviour, appetite or mood in your surviving pet(s). Here's how you can help them during this difficult time.

1. Give Them Time and Space to Mourn

Pets often show signs of grief—such as restlessness, hiding, vocalising or appearing withdrawn. Don’t rush them. Allow them to express grief in their own way and at their own pace.

2. Maintain Routines

Keep feeding, walking and play schedules as consistent as possible. Familiar routines provide comfort and a sense of security.

3. Offer Extra Comfort and Attention

Gently increase physical affection, quality time and reassurance. Let them know they are not alone in the household’s grief.

4. Keep an Eye on Their Health

If your pet stops eating, seems lethargic or acts strangely for more than a few days, consult your vet. Sometimes grief can trigger or mask health problems.

5. Let Them Say Goodbye (If Appropriate)

If possible and your vet agrees, letting your surviving pet see their companion’s body can sometimes help them understand the loss, rather than wait in confusion.

6. Use Familiar Scents and Objects

Keep familiar toys or bedding that carry the scent of the deceased pet for a little while. This can provide a comforting transitional object for the grieving animal.

7. Consider Enrichment Activities

Puzzle toys, gentle new games or walks in new places can help stimulate their minds and ease their sadness without replacing the one they lost.

8. Don’t Rush to Introduce a New Pet

Wait until both you and your surviving pets have had time to grieve before bringing a new animal into the home. Some pets may welcome the company—others may not be ready.

9. Honour the Bond Together

Include your pets in memorial activities—like lighting a candle, planting a flower or sitting quietly beside a photo. Even the act of being present and calm can foster shared healing.

10. Be Patient with Yourself and with Them

Grief isn’t just a human emotion. Be gentle with your pets—and with your own heart—as you navigate this loss together.

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