Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is one of the hardest things anyone can go through. When it comes time to make final arrangements, here’s some thoughtful advice to help guide you through it.
1. Honour Your Grief
Before anything else: give yourself permission to grieve. This is not “just an animal.” Your pet was a companion, friend, maybe even family. There’s no “right way” to feel. Let yourself process the loss.
2. Aftercare Options for Consideration
Depending on your beliefs, budget and what feels most meaningful, here are common options:
- Home Burial
Pros: Personal, intimate.
Cons: Legal restrictions (check local laws), risk of disturbance by wildlife.
Tips: Bury deep (at least 3 feet), in a biodegradable container, and away from water sources. - Pet Cremation
You can choose individual (get ashes back) or communal (ashes not returned).
Pros: Portable memorial (urn, necklace, etc.).
Cons: Can be costly. - Pet Cemetery Burial
Pros: Permanent, maintained site to visit.
Cons: Availability and expense.